Leaving Behind Memories, Not Messes

When I tell people just how much organization goes into dying, most folks get skittish and think they can opt out. I like to tell people: “You want to leave memories, not a mess.” People nod in agreement, yet getting them to actually put the pedal to the metal is a challenge.

Have you penned your obituary? Thought about a service of some sort—or not? Remember—this is your life. Have it be yours to the very end – and beyond.

Lois Hobart

Lois Hobart is a life and end-of-life coach and facilitator, living at The Admiral at the Lake, a Edgewater/Uptown Continuing Care Retirement Community, where she creates and leads all end-of-life programming; from Death Cafes, info sessions on having one’s papers in order, alternatives to traditional burial, grief support groups and an annual Remembrance Celebration to honor all residents, staff and pets who departed the previous year.

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